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  • Writer's pictureLama Jigme Gyatso

Kink versus Vanilla - 14oct21

The key to successfully blending

the practice of semen retention

with a sexually active relationship

is to view orgasmic sublimation

through the lens neuroscience.

The question then becomes a matter

NOT of kink versus vanilla,

but rather accessing

the dopamine oriented reward system

verses the oxytocin oriented one;

the former leading

to romantic dissatisfaction

and the latter leading

to greater emotional intimacy.

The question

is not one of technique

but of intensity.

By following the twenty-one day protocol

in the back of “Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow”

we can recalibrate our appreciation

of sexual subtlety.

If edging take us to the very boarder

of the point of no return

(a nine on a scale of zero to ten)

then karezza takes us only to a three.

And yes this can be applied

to every sexual act

other than semen play.

Let us conclude

with a simple

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